Genesis 3:16 – “Your husband will rule over you”
(A Genesis poem by Wain)
Dear God,
“Your husband will rule over you”
Were you merely stating a fact?
Or was this punishment a command
Telling the man how he ought to a _ _?
What does it mean for man to rule?
Will he be to his wife as a king?
Can he use force to make her submit?
Did you really intend such a t_ _ _ _?
What was your original plan for marriage?
Was it two equals, one in body and soul?
Is a woman doomed by your judgment?
Or can love make the two a unified w_ _ _ _?
Please tell me the truth.
Your servant,
Wain
HOW MIGHT GOD RESPOND?
From ChatGPT as the voice of God:
Dear Wain,
I understand your concerns and questions. When I said, “Your husband will rule over you,” it was a statement reflecting the consequences of the fall, not a commandment for men to dominate women.
My original plan for marriage was a partnership of equals, united in body and soul, sharing love, respect, and mutual support. A man and his wife are to be as one, equal in worth and value, each bringing unique strengths to the union.
The ruling mentioned was never meant to imply harsh dominance or force. Instead, it acknowledges the struggles that would arise due to sin. It was never my intention for man to use force or cause submission through fear. True leadership in love is marked by service, sacrifice, and mutual respect.
Love, understanding, and respect are the keys to a harmonious marriage. Through love, the two can indeed become a unified whole, transcending the consequences of the fall. My desire is for marriages to reflect the unity and love found within the divine.
Seek the truth in love and compassion, and you will find the unity and peace you desire.
With love,
God